What should you do if you witness child abuse in a public place?
-- Start a conversation with the adult to direct attention away from the child. For example:
"She seems to be trying your patience."
"My child sometimes gets upset like that, too."
"Children can really wear you out sometimes. Is there anything I can do to help?"
-- Divert the child's attention, if misbehaving, by talking to the child.
"That's a great baseball cap. Are you a Cardinals fan?"
"I like your T-shirt. Did you get that on vacation."
-- Look for an opportunity to praise the parent or child.
"He has the most beautiful eyes."
"That's a very pretty shirt on your little girl. Where did you get it?"
-- If the child is in danger, offer assistance.
If the child is left unattended in a grocery cart, stand near the child until the parent returns.
If the child is in immediate danger, call the police.
-- Avoid negative remarks or looks.
Negative reactions are likely to increase the parent's stress or anger, and could make matters worse for the child.
Source: Prevent Child Abuse America
Special April classes:
6:30 p.m. April 22 Your Children's Health
6:30 p.m. April 29 Home Safety
Family Support Council, 1255 Waterloo Lane, Gardnerville
Information, 782-8692
