How to spot signs of abuse

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Children who are abused may show physical and behavioral signs. You may be a child's only lifeline to safety. Pay attention to the treatment of children around you. Child abuse is everyone's business. If you suspect a child is being abused or neglected in Nevada, call (800) 992-5757.


-- Children who have been abused or neglected may be:


Nervous around adults or afraid of certain adults


Reluctant to go home or staying out late


Coming to school early


Very passive and withdrawn


Aggressive and disruptive


Tired often or complaining of nightmares


Fearful and anxious


Show sudden changes in behavior or school performance


-- Possible signs of physical abuse:


Unexplained burns, bruises and other injuries


Apparent fear of a parent or caretaker


Bruises in various stages of healing


-- Possible signs of sexual abuse:


Difficulty walking or sitting, or other indications of injury to the genital area


Sexual knowledge or behavior beyond what is normal for the child's age


Running away from home


-- Possible signs of neglect:


Missing school frequently


Begging for or stealing money or food


Lacking needed medical or dental care


Being frequently dirty


Using alcohol or other drugs


Saying there is no one at home to care for them


-- Possible signs of emotional abuse:


Acting overly mature or immature for their age


Extreme changes in behavior


Delays in physical or emotional development


Attempted suicide


Lack of emotional attachment to the parent


-- Signs of an abusive adult (parent or caretaker). These signs don't prove that an adult is abusive, but they could be a signal that the adult and his or her family need help:


Seems unconcerned about the child's welfare at school or at home


Denies problems at school or at home, or blames the child for them


Sees the child as worthless or as a burden


Avoids discussing the child's injuries or gives conflicting explanations for them


Abuses alcohol or other drugs


Seems isolated from other parents and school and community activities


Uses harsh physical discipline


Depends on the child for emotional support


Seems indifferent to the child


Seems secretive or tries to isolate the child from other children


Frequently blames, belittles and/or insults the child